Divorce and child support stink!!!!!!!

Well so much for doing the right thing....NY child support law says you pay till the child is 21...school doesn't matter.... my advice to all you women out there .... put a stipulation in your divorce papers stating that child support is paid until the child is 18 unless they are in school or 21 and in school.... it is a big detail that will bite you in the end......get a really really good lawyer and make sure you get what you deserve and don't try to be nice .... the men are never ..... I thought I would just be nice, do the right thing, and the ex's just are mean and nasty..... and me and the kids are the ones who suffer..... well lesson learned.... the hard way.... I will survive if only to show them they can't beat me....