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Well where do I begin. I moved in with my mother. It has been good move at all. She is crazy.
You just can't move back home when you have been gone for 24 years. I am a 45 year old twice divorced woman with 3 grown children and a 5 year old. I was told that I couldn't have anymore children and 12 years later surprise... but that is another story...lol..

Back to the crazy mother.

She has rules.

Rule 1: I can't have any sleep overs. I can understand if I were a child or even a young adult but I can't sleepovers unless I am married. Well, we all can guess that is not going to happen and just really sucks. I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now so it is not like I just met him and decided to bring him over to well, sleep with. He is steady in my life. She does not even let him come downstairs to my room watch tv with me. Whatever we deal although I need some alone time with him...lol...lol...lol.

Rule number 2: Do everything I say and the way I say to do it or I will yell, scream , say the meanest things to you and cry. This woman is the most dependent woman on this planet and she really believes everyone owes her. She is mean and selfish and just doesn't give a shit ... never says please or thank you and just barks orders at you. Her friends don't even want to be around her.

The worse part is that she doesn't even want to see it. I need to get out. Mow. Unfortunately I have no choice but to stay. I have decided to pick myself up and do whatever it takes to get out and run as fast as I can.

Pray I get a 2nd job. I have some feelers out. Then I will get my finances in order and good ridden. I just don't have the strength or the time to type everything to give you a better picture of what I live with daily.

Here is just one day. I wake up between 5:30 - 5:45 AM go to work until 3:45. I leave work and at 4:45 pick up the 5 year old at the sitters. Then I go pick up my mother from Dialysis which is thrity minutes from out home so I have to bypass home to get her. I always ask how she feels and how her day was and she doesn't even say hello. She tells me that I have to take her to the store or something. If I say no she has a fit. We go home and she says what are you, meaning me, making for dinner. I cook dinner, she eats and goes to sleep at the table.

Now she made a rule that if you cook the other person cleans, well that rule does not apply to me. I cook then clean, do my daughters homework with her, bathe her and then put her to bed. Then I get everything ready for the next day and straighten up the house and go down to my room, it is usually 9:00pm.

She does absolutely nothing and she tells me all the stuff I have to do:
take out the garbage
sweep the floor
take out recycling
etc.

And that is a good day. I can't sit for a minute because she always has something for me to do. Mind you she chose the life she lives. She really hates the fact that I am there but she convinced me to mover here. I want to put her in an assisted living facility because she says she cannot do anything. She won't drive so I have to drive her everywhere. She says she can't walk up and down the stairs, she refuses to make alternate arrangements for travel- she just won't hear of it. She just inconveniences me and everyone one else because the world owes her... I just want to scream.......